Spring Issue - 2014

Smile Foundation


Daughters no more dearer? A wake-up call

Over the past decade, gender equality has been recognized as key not only to the health of nations, but also to their social and economic development. The promotion of gender equality and empowering of women is one of United Nation’s Millennium Development Goals. But even though India is a signatory to the goal, unfortunately it lags far behind in terms of gender equality as a major portion of our population; verily the half of humanity – the female sex, continues to be denied not just their rights and an equal status, but even the chance to survive.

The Child Sex Ratio (CSR) in India, which has constantly been on the decline since Independence, has appallingly touched an all-time low, according to the latest Census Report. From 976 in 1961, to 927 in 2001 and 914 in 2011, the decline in CSR rings a threatening alarm for the country. Why?

Child Sex Ratio is the number of female children in the age group of 0-6 per thousand of male children in the same age group, at any given point of time. Since it counts six years after birth too, a decline in CSR means that not only are lesser girl children allowed to take birth, but even after birth, the chances of their survival are much lower, when compared to male children.

A UNDP report states that the CSR for most developing countries lies between a narrow range – from 943 to 971 girls per thousand boys. India’s current CSR however falls almost 30 points short of the lower mark.
Amartya Sen’s seminal essay, ‘More than 100 Million Women are Missing’, in New York Times in 1990 about the skewed sex ratio in Asia and Africa, stands true for India even two decades later, though in a much more frightening proportion when applied to the Child Sex Ratio. This is because CSR is not only a reflection of the present gender bias in society, but also a wake-up call warning of the steep and unavoidable gender imbalance in the future.

It is significant that while the country has progressed in every sector since the Independence, be it education, commerce or health, the Child Sex Ratio has witnessed a continuous decline. Why one may ask, if more people are educated and aware now; many are financially better off to raise children; government policies support families with girl children, then why this decline? Many blame it on the advances in medical technology that have come over the years, enabling sex detection and sex selective abortion.

It is true that technical advances have facilitated avoidance of unwanted births. While earlier female infanticide was resorted to, now it is female foeticide that is more readily used to prevent girls from taking birth. The country’s policy makers recognized this menace in 1994 and tried to prevent the misuse of Ultrasound and other diagnostic techniques though the Pre Conception and Pre Natal Diagnostic Techniques (PCPNDT) Act. But since then, the Child Sex Ratio has only declined further.

It is important to realize that technology is not the real cause behind the dropping CSR, it is only a catalyst. The questions – why these methods are resorted to, why girl children are not allowed to take birth, or allowed to survive beyond their early years, must be answered to understand the root cause behind the decline in Child Sex Ratio.

The answer is the prevalence of a strong son preference in our society. Even after ages, this gender bias continues to put expecting mothers into undue pressure as families and society continue to prefer male children.

Birth of girl children being celebrated by traditional beating of a 'thali', during a Padharo Mahari Lado programme at Pachapadra village in Barmer, Rajasthan

Remarkably it is in urban areas and families with educated adults as decision makers where the Child Sex Ratio tends to be more unfavourable to girls. A National Rural Health Mission study states that “more educated women are using ultrasound testing and having disproportionately more sons than women with less or no education.”

Our society, which is unfriendly – even hostile to women, could be a major reason behind educated women preferring to have sons rather than daughters. Discrimination against women in workplace, their vulnerable position in family, increasing incidents of violence against women ensure that bringing up a daughter can be a daunting task, particularly if you have yourself lived the thankless life.

The modern urban economy is another factor which paradoxically has contributed to the prevailing gender imbalance in society, instead of helping alleviate it. A report by the Centre for Women’s Development Studies suggests that most couples today are carefully planning the gender composition of their children, in accordance with the costs of bringing them up. This has tilted the scales further in favour of boys as the cost of having a daughter now includes her schooling and higher education, besides her marriage. Thus even progressive developments are being used to portray girl children as a burden.

Child Sex Ratio is an indicator of not only gender balance or lack thereof, but also a trigger for trends in important aspects of development in any society – education, health, employment and empowerment. This is because women, as forbearers of the next generation, have a key role in building the future of a nation. If women are healthy, educated and empowered, it is more likely that their children will go to school, their families will be healthy and communities will prosper.

The socio-economic and cultural fundamentals in our country have always been detrimental to the female half of our population. The government along with the community needs to initiate a change in these fundamentals by directing endeavours that aim to reduce the son preference in society and increase the value of daughters to their parents.

After successfully implementing its women and girl child empowerment programme, Swabhiman, for almost a decade, Smile Foundation has joined hands with the Department of Health, NRHM, Help Age India and Cairn India Limited, to initiate one such sensitization campaign called ‘Padharo Mahari Lado’ (Welcome My Dear Daughter) in Rajasthan, a state with one of the lowest Child Sex Ratio in India.

Intensive awareness programmes including folk songs, dance and drama, are organized every month as part of ‘Padharo Mahari Lado’, to sensitize the community towards girl children. The campaign celebrates the birth of girl children and local customs, like beating a thali on the birth of a boy are performed for new born girls. Their parents are provided with safety kits including soap, quilt and mosquito nets. Girls performing well in studies and sports are also felicitated under the campaign.

It is time we recognize the central role a woman plays in welfare of a family, of a society, indeed, of the whole country and give her an equal chance. Laws and policies will not be able to recover the missing girl children unless the society itself becomes a friendly and conducive space and welcomes girl children with open arms.

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